Right guys and girls, let’s get one things straight – NSA dating is exactly that: NO STRINGS ATTACHED dating! That doesn’t mean that you should stay around and wait for breakfast, not does it mean that you “swap numbers” and stay in touch. No, that’s not how things are supposed to happen.
So many people THINK they are ready for the world of casual sex and NSA dating but the reality of things is a little different. The next morning you look across to the date you screwed the hell outta last night and realise that if you can have great sex, you might be able to build a great relationship out of it. This goes for both sexes too – the guys are just as bad as the girls!
There are some rules that you should follow if you want to give no strings attached dating a shot… Are you ready for them?
1 – Don’t try and swap numbers!
This just makes things awkward. You WERE great in bed last night but that doesn’t mean I want to give it another shot. There are just too many fish in the sea, you know, and I don’t want to be stuck to the same fish every night. I wouldn’t have joined a casual dating website otherwise…
Don’t make things awkward – don’t try and make it more than what it was. It might have been great sex but there’s a reason behind that – it’s because it was no-holds-barred sex and things got a little crazy. If you were going to start doing it on a regular basis, it would just turn into routine. Where’s the fun in that?
2 – Always wear a condom!
Really, guys and girls, this should go without saying but there are still some out there using the usual excuses “Oh yeah, I don’t like them because it dulls the feeling” or “Sorry, I can’t. I’m allergic to latex”… There are so many brands, sizes, and types these days that there’s no excuse. If the two of you are getting physical, at least be smart enough to take the appropriate precautions.
If you don’t have a condom, nothing happens. It’s as simple as that.
3 – Don’t be a cling-on!
Don’t try and outstay your welcome. If you’re awake for hours after your new sex partner has gone to sleep, just get up, leave a ‘thank you’ note, and get yourself a cab home. What’s the point in going through the next-morning humiliation if you don’t need to?
4 – Be a clean date!
If you are going on a sex date, make the effort to go “prepared”. This means that you should shave the bits that need to be shaved, make sure certain areas get extra special cleaning attention, and just go clean. You would hate to go back to a date’s house to realise they hadn’t showered in about a week, so don’t do that to someone else.
5 – Don’t assume that meeting up means that you’ll get laid!
Sometimes the connection just isn’t there. That’s what that firs tempting is all about – figuring each other out. If you get bad vibes from someone, you’re not going to want to go to bed with them. You might not be everyone’s cup of tea. Just because you agreed to meet up doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re definitely guaranteed sex!